Deelah’s Diary: The Beginning
Every woman wants to get married or should I say a few mainly because of the hullabaloos (giggles). Well, we all have one reason or the other. My name is Deelah and I’m a single mom. I get that way at times when I’m being introduced to any guy whether at a party or when family and friends come visiting. Being a single mom is fun but No, I have not always wanted to be like this. I had beautiful thoughts of how I would meet the man of my dreams, have 3 kids, live in a big house, own exotic cars, go for expensive holidays… Hold up! Gosh I sound like Nollywood movies right now. Though dreams and wishes do come true but only if one works towards it, self-realization! And that is why I decided to write this diary.
I met lots of guys who I could have chosen and ended up with as my husband but inside life they say… My bundle of joy came when I least expected. I was just in my finals in a college of Education and was preparing for final exams though I had met Mike who I loved with all of my heart. I did all for this guy but didn’t want any form of commitment because I had plans to get into the university almost immediately. Mike had other plans like introducing me to his mom and I went, before I knew what was going on, I was in his mom’s house and she went on and on and all I could say was… Yes ma! Lol.
I just didn’t want to be tied to a guy when I still knew I was going to meet new guys in the university, my thoughts though. Of all the guys I met during my college days, Mike was the only guy that caught my attention but the others were just helping out (tongue out)! I had super fun while in college and when I thought I was just going to round off and get my acts together and go for University registration, I got the shock of my life… You are 4 months pregnant dear… The voice echoed till I realized I was the receiver… We had a heated argument which led to sex, just enter and come out session, no delay tactics whatsoever… now I’m pregnant! God 4 months! How on Earth did that happen?
My parents were happy, only God knows why because I was pissed! Then the unbelievable happened, I went to Mike’s house to tell him what happened and he denied the pregnancy, that wasn’t the juice, the juice was what his mom said. Well, I have to tend to my beautiful child right now, I hope you are enjoying my story, I will continue this story the first chance I get.